Thursday, November 12, 2009

Christmas Card--I need help!

This was my 2008 Christmas Card. I am looking for something unique and I just loved this idea.
The second picture was framed for my Christmas card framing project I display every year.
If you have seen any cleaver ideas, please send them my way. I do have a nice photograph of my kids too that I can use, but the Tiny Prints card that I fell in love with in Sept. is no longer on their website.
Bummer for me.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Silhouettes

I just love them. Survived the Wizard of Oz--talented kids, great parents and a wonderful program. More later

Sunday, November 1, 2009

WIZARD OF OZ--70th Anniversary

In honor of the Wizard of Oz 70th Anniversary, famous shoe designers designed new, updated ruby slippers. My son happens to be in the Wizard of Oz this next weekend. I will post a few pictures as soon as I get them. People in Ann Arbor are very serious about their theater and have very high standards. The costumes, sets, talent, production, etc. are amazing.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

WHAT HAVE I BEEN UP TO?

Well, sorry I have not posted in a while. I do miss all my blogging friends. Here is the scoop on me.
1. Back to school was fun. My son finally received his trombone today!
2. Great Grandma Apley died. What a friendly, spunky person. She will be missed by all.
3. Daughter B lettered in golf!
4. My son is in the Wizard of Oz--he is a Monkey, Winkie and Munchkin. Huge commitment for everyone. Ann Arbor people are serious about their theater so it is really something.
5. Great field hockey season for my daughter C. They won a big tournament.
6.. Weekends include soccer, tennis, golf, U of M football games, etc.
7. I am dabbling a little in politics--try not to get involved because people just hate you if you oppose school millages.
8. Decorating the lounges again for the St. Joe Ball. The pictures above are part of my plans. The theme is Paris and we are having a french design -black & white bathroom.

Friday, October 2, 2009

Communist Band Instrument Selection

I am curious how band instruments are assigned in your town. My son had to select his top three instruments. My son is in 5th grade and when asked to select instrument choices for 5th grade, He selected the:

1. Trombone

2. Trumpet

3. Clarinet

We happily signed the form confirming his choices. We were foolish to assume that he would get a choice on his list-This is the public schools you know and it frankly, it always seems to be about the teachers and what is best and award winning bands. He tried the instruments at school and said the he could buzz the mouthpiece of trombone, but had trouble reaching the full range of slide, he could not buzz the trumpet mouth piece and had trouble playing the clarinet. Needless to day, he came home with the:

BARITONE!!!

What I said? I do not remember approving that instrument (as lovely as it may be). One, they are extremely expensive to purchase, rent, etc. and secondly, can he even lift it? Thirdly, it is base clef and means a life of harmony and quarter notes-rest-quarter note-rest (just kidding) Why is my child not getting a instrument on his list while others are getting their first choice? I think this is a pretty good question to ask.

I contacted the music teacher questioning this decision and she said...Trip had trouble reaching the full range on the trombone and the baritone and trombone are virtually interchangeable--no they are not!! He can easily go from the baritone to the trombone and we will give you a baritone for home and one for school. Do you see an agenda here!! Excuse me, why did you not give my child a choice on the list. There is a shortage of baritones in the high school and they think they can trick my son and us into this choice.

I pressed this teacher a little and uncovered that my son had some of the shortest arms in the class and that made him the best candidate for this instrument. He was actually measured!

Secondly, she said that they are trying to encourage the kids to play these instruments (lots of cellos too) because they have too many flutes and trumpets in the high school, the bands would be unbalanced and the kids are disappointed if they could not be in the best band.

In other words, you are measuring my child's arm to determine his musical instrument future based on his size today. I talked to my brother (a trombonist) and he said that no one can reach the low notes when they start out and there are trigger trombones to help for the 5th and 6th position anyway. Going from the baritone to the trombone is like going from the flute to the violin--not easy at all.

DO NOT MESS WITH THE BAND GEEKS.

So, in my lovely manner, I sent a really angry note comparing music selection to selecting young gymnast for the Chinese team based on physical size, etc. My son has a late birthday and is smaller today.

This is totally COMMUNISM. MEASURING KIDS AND PICKING THE SHORTEST ARMS FOR THE BARITONE IS UNBELIEVABLE. HEAVEN FORBID WE DO NOT PROPER REPRESENTATION OF THE BRASS INSTRUMENTS AND CANNOT WIN A GRAMMY AWARD.

When did the arts stop being about the kids and started being about the teachers and their awards?

Our music teachers are trying to talk the kids into instruments the high school band needs. Many kids were pushed toward the cello (too many violins too I guess--too bad if you are poor and cannot afford violin lessons on your own, those spots are taken by those who can).

I did say, shame on you. 1) give the kids a choice on his list 2) do not try to manipulate the kids into picking an instrument they do not like or are interested remotely in playing--it is about them not what you need in the future. A 4 minute interview should not determine the instrument a child should play and they should not be discouraged in anyway. You are telling kids they can not something to make your job easier.

Finally, after my angry, rude email, the music teacher called me and said she would have an instrument ready on Monday. She said " I disagree with all your arguments and hope he is not frustrated when he cannot reach the low notes'. I said, the good news his, he will probably grow.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

IT IS GOING TO BE A LONG SCHOOL YEAR

When you visit the pool snack shack at our country club, instead of cash, you give them your member number. My children use the snack shack everyday in the summer and are always sneaking in extra treats. The use of the number is always a problem in the summer.

This number's life seems to be carrying into the fall. My son just gave our member number as part of our address 2443 Berkshire Road. Our address is 809. He also swears that is our address. There are so many problems on mulitple levels here. Thought this picture was too funny!

Friday, August 14, 2009

Good-bye MomAgenda--I am a FamilyTime.Mine Girl!

Time.Mine

These are my friends Sarah and Lisa (and their beautiful families) who started a wonderful business of planners call Familytime.mine (part of the dot.mine group). They sell their products on their own website and through Amazon and Borders (Borders has exclusive designs made just for them). Their planners are designed for busy mothers who have to manage the lives of their busy children. Lisa and Sarah sat down with a bunch of active women who gave input into the actual functionality, layout and design their planners and voila....FamilyTime.mine was born. I AM A HUGE FAN!

I have been using these planners for the past three years. Last year, I lost my FamilyTime.Mine planner and because I was in Chicago and desperate, I replaced it with a MomAgenda--big mistake. MomAgendas are way too small. I need space for all my kids activities and always had 8.5x11 inch paper sticking out of my planner--I looked like a slob!

I also use google calendar, but when I am in a meeting, I like looking at a monthly and yearly calendar--I guess I am a big picture type girl and need to see it all.

Cute Bubbles (Time.Mine-Standard Calendar)

Purples are "in" for fall--great cover (FamilyTime.Mine)

Love this one--so fresh! (FamilyTime.Mine)

Fun Dots! (FamilyTime.Mine)

Month at a Glance -FamilyTime.Mine

Has Week At A Glance too -FamilyTime.Mine

Lots of extras--I write it all down here and keep my calendars year after year!

These fabulous calendars are available on Amazon, Borders.com or Borders Stores,

Let me know what type of calendar you are using!!!!

Friday, August 7, 2009

Vera Bradley Inspired Cookies and Cakes

Wedgwood Inspired Monogram Cookies

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Etsy: SweetAmbs

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Chicago Institute of Art Modern Wing and No to Terzo Piano

Photo by Stephen Johnson
Photo by Stephen Johnson
Well, we made a quick trip to Chicago. It was a fairly major shopping adventure with a few moments of viewing Venetian Nights (fireworks and lighted boat parade) from my sister and brother-in-laws place across from Millennium Park. We also made sure that we made it to the Modern Wing of the Chicago Institute of Arts. It was incredible! Great architecture and wonderful art. There were enough famous pieces sprinkled amongst some innovate works produced for the museum. All the artworks is presented in a simply designed, innovated piece of architecture.
We had one disappointment--it was Terzo Piano. This is a stunning restaurant made of mostly windows that overlook Millennium Park. There are several pieces of stone art inside this restaurant that can be touched, sat on ,etc. The food was 6/10 ; staff was a 0/10; view and atmosphere: 10/10

I am not sure what exactly happened, but my daughter (who is 12) ordered a flat bread pizza and ended up with an antipasti plate. This could have been simply resolved, but my husband said something and the waitress left saying "what a jerk". More importantly, the waitress made my daughter feel just horribly--accusing her of not remembering what she ordered. Maybe she was confused because the menu was partly in Italian--am I in Italy?--I am sorry, I am not and believe me, we are far from it in this restaurant. At least when you are insulted in Italy, it is in Italian and we do not understand what they are saying.

My husband traded his lunch with my daughter, but neither were still happy with the food. My husband even said something to the manager. We received 10% off our bill and my daughter's meal was free. Actually, it is not the money at all. Rarely am I this unhappy that I would write about it--but, this restaurant is trying to play in the "big leagues" and having people leave who are unhappy believing that you ruined their meal, is not good for your reputation. We could not get out of there fast enough! Do not expect perfection here!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Preppy Tattoo

Every summer when I receive my lovely tax bill, I become instantly, and temporarily dedicated to using our public library, public parks, etc.

One such public park is called Rolling Hills Water Park. Actually, it is a really nice water park in a beautiful setting. It is clean, simple, and reasonably priced. I said, "hey kids, we are going to the water park for your brother's birthday". I packed up my group and we hit the wave pool, lazy river, fancy sprinkler area, etc. all for $8.00 for the day.

Since we mostly hang out at our private clubs in the summer, I had forgotten what public really means --the rules of modesty are gone.

Here are a few questions for you readers, and these are not meant to be mean sound, just statements from a sheltered mother of three:

Tattoos--I did not realize they were so popular. When was it acceptable for 70+ year old women have them and wear them proudly? Secondly, when did it become acceptable for severely overweight people to wear bikinis? There was not just one or two violators of this rule either. Is flaunting obesity in style? You know the saying, "love your body, and be proud of it"...well, it was in full form, and I mean full form today.

I was listening to the radio (tattoo discussion) and this woman stated that even though she has several easily visible tattoos, people should not judge her and we all need look inside of her. Well, I am sorry....if you choose this path, you will be judged and categorized the rest of your life. You rarely see tattoos on successful business leaders, politicians, etc.(unless they are a little off).

Remember girls, when you are pledging that sorority and in weak moment a group thinks it would be fun to put those Greek letters on your ankle, think again. Of course, Kappas would never do this.

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Preppy Madras Yoga Ball

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Princess Camp & Cinderella Cakes

All pictures are from Flickr

PRINCESS CAMP

About 5 years ago, my 10 year old daughter started a Princess Camp. Twenty-four girls come every year (mostly neighborhood girls without really marketing the camp). There are crafts, a camp song, a show, dress-up day, games, Ariel's beach day, etc. It is a precious week for my daughters, their friends, and these little girls.

SUMMER BUSINESS

This camp also helps my daughters and their friends run a business. They set schedules, manage receivables, expenses, manage employees, etc. One day this year, we are going to a gardens where there is a fairy hollow and the children will make fairy houses and play games around the beautiful flowers in the Arboretum.

CAKES!

Being a cake perfectionist, meaning, I always strive to find the perfect cake for each special occasion. With this in mind, I think every little girl should have at least one Barbie Cake in her life time--I remember a friend of my mom's made me one in honor of my dance recital. My girls have had a Snow White, Cinderella, etc. as well as many fabulous, designer cakes too. Here are some examples of Cinderella theme cakes and the coveted Barbie Cake.

Friday, July 10, 2009

A Sunny Room! Have a great weekend

Thursday, July 9, 2009

FUNERALS

Andy Warhol
Sad,sad news. A friend of my 15 year old daughter lost her father to cancer last week. About three days later, her brother tragically committed suicide. What a sad situation and I wish I knew how to help them.

One of the lessons I have learned in my life is...I always try to go to funerals and if I cannot make the funeral, I really try to go to the visitation. It is never fun, but I always try to go. I usually send flowers and try to send over food to the home too.

My grandfather's funeral had about 200 people and my grandmother's funeral had about 80 people. I know she was actually loved by many, but she survived them all. It was so important to my family and me to know that others valued her life too. This is why I go to funerals.

My rules are simple:

If you are a friend and have lost someone close, I am there. Even if you are not a close friend but are involved in my life or my child's life, I am there...period. It means so much to your friends and family that you were there supporting them.

What are your thoughts on attending funerals?

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

New Laws of Casual Style

Animals make the best logos. Match the logo with the brand. A. Polo; B. Penguin; C. Lacoste; D. Brooks Brothers; E. American Eagle; F. Vineyard Vines

ANSWERS: 1-C, 2-E, 3-D, 4-F, 5-A, 6-B

This is an article that was published in Esquire Magazine Feb. 2008 and I pulled a few highlights out (renumbered). It was written for men but many of the concepts apply to women too.

The (New) Laws of Casual Style

Put down the blue button-down, step away from the Crocs, and open your closet. We need to talk.

1. When in doubt: a white oxford shirt.

2. There is a name for men who can pull off wearing sports jerseys. They’re called professional athletes.

3. A rugby shirt is the most masculine thing a man can wear.

4. The 1950s and 60s were the high points of casual. Everything before and after was hit-or-miss.

5. Fitted is good. Snug is dicey. Tight is just wrong.

6. Hemp clothes are great. If you want to smoke them.

7. Khaki pants will look and feel their best approximately two weeks before disintegrating.

8. The man who imparts opinions via T-shirt has neither the intelligence to form a cogent opinion nor the good sense to keep it to himself.

9. Everything looks better with age. Except for white T-shirts. Those look best new.

10. The Professor was the best-dressed man on Gilligan’s Island, followed by Gilligan, Thurston Howell III, and the Skipper. Oh, and for what it’s worth, Ginger. By God, Ginger.

11. Articles of clothing that you can dress up: polo shirts, khaki shorts, blue jeans, white sneakers, and, for Texans, cowboy hats and boots.

12. Articles that you can never dress up: sports jerseys, track pants, wifebeaters, Birkenstocks, and flip-flops.

13. Cotton is the universal language of casual clothing. Wear it anywhere and you’ll fit right in.

14. Sweatpants are for sick days, couch surfing, and light exercise. For anything else, throw on a pair of jeans and get on with it.

15. Velour: no.

16. Never wear more than two denim items at a time. Scratch that: Never wear more than one denim item at a time, and make sure it’s not a vest.

17. To our knowledge, tank drivers never wore tank tops. If they did, we might like them better.

18. Khaki is a color. Chinos are a pair of pants. Know the difference but feel free to use the terms interchangeably.

19. The more expensive a restaurant’s entrées, the less comfortable you will feel in jeans. Unless, of course, you could buy the restaurant, in which case you can get away with anything you want.

20. No one you work with should ever see your toes or your nipples. Please dress accordingly.

21. Remove the brass buttons from your store-bought sport coat and replace them with buttons from a fancy golf club. It will annoy the hell out of the club’s (real) members.

22. The best jeans have five pockets. The best khakis have four. Anything more or less and you’re asking for trouble. Oh, and 1998 called: It wants its cargo pants back.

23. Unless he’s a chef, a gardener, or a jolly fat man from Holland, no one should ever wear clogs in his daily life. Same goes for Crocs.

24. Speaking of: We’re not sure what Americans did to deserve Crocs, but whatever it was, we’re sorry. We’re really, really sorry.

25. If you see the words “Barbecue,” “Come as you are,” “Bring the kids,”or “BYO” on an invitation, dress casually. When in doubt, bring a navy-blue blazer.

26. Berets: no. Not in Paris, France, and especially not in Paris, Texas.

27. The overlap between active sportswear and casual party attire should be kept to an absolute minimum. Leave the neon shirts and pants for the links, the white tennis shorts to the courts, and the swimsuit at the pool.

28. There’s no harm in letting yourself go, so long as you’re never more than an hour away from pulling yourself together.

29. A hood knocks ten years off your age and twenty points off your IQ.

30. Sunglasses don’t belong on top of your head, folded into the neck of your shirt, or hanging around your neck by some nylon cord. If you have to remove them, hold them or put them on a table. MAKE SURE YOU CHECK OUT THE ARTICLE FOR ANOTHER 30 or so laws.

Monday, July 6, 2009

ESTY-Myrtle and LLoyd

by Esty: Myrtle and Lloyd

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Preppy Plaid Notes-Great for Our Guys

Friday, July 3, 2009

Happy Independence Day!

One of my favorite memories is my son Trip's 1st birthday party. His birthday is July 6th so you can see where we found our theme. Here is my daughter Caroline in her smocked flag dress (my three children had smocked flag outfits). Happy Fourth of July!

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

JIMMY CHOO-HUNTER WELLIES

I am not sure what to think.....

Jimmy Choo
Fortnum and Mason
(cleaver and cute)

Kate Spade Reading Glasses

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

ORVIS Hare Bottle Opener

Monday, June 29, 2009

Tretorn Tennis Shoes....A Classic

Sperry Topsider Sail Bags

$185
$150

Another Dance Routine

Ok, don't people have to work? This is fun,Maria would be proud.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

CHARM BRACELETS--Forward by Preppy Handbook Author

Charm Bracelets is a wonderful book illustrating beautiful ideas for themed charm bracelets. The Forward is written by the author of the Preppy Handbook. I purchased this book for my mom for Christmas (found it on the sale rack at Barnes and Nobles). She has started gold charm bracelets for my daughters. My one daughter has a gold bracelet--started recently, a silver bracelet with charms I gave her for her Confirmation, a Tiffany charm bracelet with 2-3 silver charms and a Juicy Couture charm bracelet too. My other daughter has a gold bracelet--so far. Here are some other charm bracelets that I found on flickr.

Do you have a charm braelet and what types of charms are on it?

Thursday, June 25, 2009

The Cultivated Life

Thanks to Tickled Pink & Green, I just added this to my summer reading:

Summer Watches

This year at the pool, instead of the Rolex watches, I have been seeing a lot of Forever21 loose fitting watches like this but mostly in white. Other than the band, these are probably not water proof, but they look great. For $12, you cannot beat it. Forever 21

Saturday, June 13, 2009

WHAT COLOR ARE YOUR JACK ROGERS, STEPHEN BONANNO OR STEVEN SALARIO?

A reader emailed me asking say she wants to get a pair of Jack Rogers shoes and which color of should get. With so many great choices, that is a hard decision. Since I wear a lot of pink & green and Lilly Pulitzer, I would purchase the pink & green version. I also seem to get a lot of use out of my blue and lime pair below too. I purchased a light blue monogrammed Stephen Bonanno last year and love them too but do not wear them as much as my pink & green pair. I also have several pairs of Steven Salario sandals that have white stitch with a color like pink or blue. I do not wear these very often either. What do my readers suggest and what color shoes do you have?

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

MARGARITA SPA DAY